Although eggplant soaks up oil easily, ironically the more oil you fry it in, the less it absorbs. So the trick is frying the eggplant in a lot of oil, at least one inch deep in the pan, and simply removing the excess oil after baking.
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From How to Cook Italian by Giuliano Hazan, © 2005 Scribner.