by Victoria Loustalot

This single woman has a dating dilemma. Read her question, check out other iVillagers' responses and then add your own advice!

"There is a new guy at my job who I am very attracted to. He is a new employee and has been there for about a month. The first time I saw him, the usual ‘hi’ was all I could say. And I had to ‘close’ my mouth as I was so blown away by his sexiness. I have had opportunities to talk to him, but I guess I fear rejection and being talked about at work. I have never been so attracted to someone at work. I've never wanted any work drama. So I'm just asking for some suggestions on how to approach him. He seems like a sweet guy, but I'm so used to men approaching me. This is new for me. Any suggestions you have will be helpful. I don't even know his name!!" —hotcarmel12

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